Never judge people by what you hear about them.. And never be fooled by the first impression you get from them.. Always seek it yourself to dig deep into their souls in order to know who they are… Put your eyes into theirs and open up your heart for them… LISTEN carefully, for you have two ears and one mouth only! Stimulate them to talk truthfully about themselves… Then choose whether or not you wanna continue the relationship or the friendship. Also, don’t expect that they’re ANGELS… They’re human beings! of course they made mistakes and they’re still making mistakes!! & don’t think that YOU are an angel either! Hiding your mistakes does not mean you do not have ones! Be understanding and not judgmental.. If there is something that you do not like about them and you wanna change it, DON’T TELL THEM STRAIGHT using harsh words! If you show them CARE and LOVE, they will try to have the same positive qualities you HAVE… & Always, always and always be honest, but in a polite way! & of course SMILE… you never know what smiles can do to one’s heart!! Smiles are the Halal Magic… And if your’re the faithful type, PRAY for them… Believe in prayers and Allah’s mercy…
I hope I am not preaching what I am not practicing!