Men & The Rules

  • If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
  • If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
  • Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
  • Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
  • Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that is not meant to be.
  • Slower is better.
  • Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
  • If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then heck no you can’t “be friends.”
  • A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.
  • Don’t settle.
  • If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
  • Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.”
  • You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
  • The only person you can control in the relationship is you.
  • Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
  • Maintain boundaries in how a man treats you.
  • If something bothers you, speak up.
  • Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
  • You cannot change a man’s behavior.
  • Change comes from within.
  • Don’t EVER make him feel like he is more important than you are… even if he has more education or in a better job.
  • Do not make him a quasi-God. He is a man, nothing more, nothing less.
  • Never let a man define who you are.
  • Never borrow someone else’s man.
  • If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
  • A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
  • All men are NOT dogs.You should not be the one doing all of the bending…. compromise is a two way street.
  • You need time to heal between relationships… there is nothing cute about baggage… deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
  • You should never look for someone to complete you… a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals… look for someone complimentary… not supplementary.
  • Dating is fun…. even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
  • Make him miss you sometimes… when a man always knows where you are, and you’re always readily avaliable to him- he takes it for granted.
  • Never move into his mother’s house.
  • Never co-sign for a man.
  • Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.
  • Keep him in your radar but get to know others


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